February 1st - Class 4 - Listening
"Listening is hard. It is a learned skill"
1) To be a good listener
- Focus on the speaker
- Dont interupt
- Empathy
- Sympathize
- Listen to the words
- Keep on tract
- Be patient
- Tone of their voice
- Dont make it about yourself
- Engage
- Non-verbals
- Ignore personal prejudice
- Prepare to listen
2) Barriers to listening
- Noise
- Environment
- Mental State
- Prejudice
- Language barriers
- Age
- Information overload
- Eye contact
- Relationship with the person speaking
- Attractiveness
- Pre-disposition
- Stereotype
- Snap judgements
- Different beliefs
You have to choose to participate in listening
http://www.ted.com/talks/julian_treasure_5_ways_to_listen_better
We watched this video in class and it made me realize that i can always get better at listening and to try to rid myself of barriers when engaging in conversation with others, because that will be vital in my field of work. I enjoyed the video, it gave me ideas on how to improve my hearing abilities.
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